Node not connecting to sparrow

um node was connecting to sparrow before I change the node tor address to the new one in the connect to wallet setup window, is there a reason the address changed and why the new address will not connect.
I am getting the error SOCKS: connection refused
thanks for any help

If you are in your local network use your local nodes IP address.
There is no reason to use Tor in your local network.
The address should not have changed. Are you looking at another spot.?