View Node Balance in another Wallet

Hi, Sorry. I would like to view (and send receive) my balance on my Umbel node, in another wallet. I was hoping I could add it to sparrow. When I google, I get the guides where we link the sparrow wallet to electrum server, I have done that, and that is not what I want. My sparrow is using my node to verify transactions, now I want to view the node balance and send funds from another wallet. I was hoping it was sparrow, no?

Sorry, I am sure this will be easy once I am pointed down the right path, thank you in advance.

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